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"Quota Question" !

Today i am writing something which i wanted to write long back... One thing which bothers me a lot in our education system the cast based admission procedure.
I understand students coming from adverse "ECONOMICAL" background need a special quota.
I understand students coming from remote villages need a special quota as they do not have enough facilities and infra during their primary education.

But everytime i think i fail to understand (I SAY I FAIL TO UNDERSTAND) why a student who learns in the same school i attend , who has each and every facility that i have , who lives in the same type of apartment as mine , who eats what i eat , who has all those luxuries that i have too...HAS A RESERVATION ??? !!!! ???

I refers to every individual who doesnt produce any caste certificate to get into a college!!!

Why why why!!!

A Conversation

A Conversation ...

I am chatting on gtalk . I am just goin thru my chat list as always to read status msgs... I see "her" status busy as always!! ;) Its been around 2 years since we spoke. I decide to ping her.

Me: Hey , Busy ?

(She replies after 10-15 mins...Oh ya , busy ;) )
Her : Hey sorry , i was on phone...how ru doin ?

Me : I m gud...long time ya! u are so busy these days...!

Her : Ya Kinda...I dont get time to catch up with neone ya!

Me : Oh..lotta work pressure ?

Her : Hmm yeah...Just trying to save my job...

Me : y so ? i mean recession...

Her : yeah thats one factor...But generally u have to work really hard here ! not like apna India!

My thots : (work hard "here"!!! toh hum log idhar fukat baithate hai ?? :D)

Me : Oh is it...btw am i disturbing u ? so sorry if i am!

Her : No ya , im glad u pinged , i never do..i just dont have time man!

Me : Oh np , i understand...

Her : hey il just grab a cup of black coffee , brb

My thots : ("Coffee" was gud enuf...but mebbe "Black coffee" added "X" Factor)

Her : Hey m back , aah coffee is just assom...

Me : is it...i cant even imagine it wo milk !

Her : See u have to develop a taste for it...u shud come here and try it man , ul love it!

My thots : (Come here to have black coffee !! :P Neways!)

Me : yeah ! i shud!!

Her : So hows ur job ?

Me : Going good...

Her: Why dont u take up an assignment here ? 4 saal india main baithi hai! waste!!

Me : Waste kyun ?

Her : Are life here is soo good! i dont even feel like coming back man!

Me : Kool , good for u...i cant even think of settling thr..

Her: O u nuts! thats coz u ve never experienced it here! life is so easy ... everything is just in place...Life is kool. I remember our college days...so much pollution..that traffic ...cming to college was like hell man! god knows how i spent 4 years of my life in that hell!

My thots : (OMG , Why the hell i m in touch with her!!)
Me : wat ru saying! i loved college days! submissions , cultural stuff ...i miss it!

Her : ya , its obvious in ur case...I mean u were so inetersted in all that...

My thots : ("in my case" !!!! @#$@#$ "All That" !!!! Crap Crap Crap)
Me : yeah mebbe thats why!

Her : Han...I toh was waiting just to get that degree man...and leave india as soon as possible! Im glad now i just come for my visa stuff and chill out in dec...

My thots : (wish they did VISA stuff thr itself! ...such people are neways not welcome!!!)
Me : oh ya...i saw ur snaps on orkut ! u had nice time in india...

Her : Ya...i visited a resort in some village near pune...Village was fun man , but i must say such things are good just for day!!

My thots : (Village was Fun!! "some" village near pune ...no comments , no comments!)
Me : hmm yeah... (Im almost blank and failing to think of a topic which i can discuss) , So do u plan to settle thr ?

Her : Ofcourse!! No doubt! we have "maharashtra mandal" here ...so u know i can catch up with cultural stff and all , so life is quite kool! and parents visit me once in an year ...

My thots : (catch up with cultural stuff , i say get lost!!!)
Me : nice ya! ladka wahan ka hi dhundogi kya ! ?

Her : Absolutely! Yaar woh senti vala ladka nahi chahiye jo 5 saal baad india lautana chahta hai and all!! kya rakkha hai udhar yaar , i dont understand...!

My thots : (Hum jaise Senti Pagal rakkhe hai! )
Me : hmmm...

Her : U shud come her man ! then ul have fun !

Me : I dont mind visiting all the places or working their for a while , but i want to come back in any case!

Her : Oh i c , "sWades" and all!! :P

Me : ...

Her : That movie is such a boring thing man! documentary abt social issues...!

My thots : (Shut up u freak!)
Me : Oh u dint like it...Its my fav...

Her : no i dint...and neways i dont watch hindi movies nemore! they are sick man! i prefer english serials and movies...they are brilliant...

My thots : (I am blank , how can sm1 generalize!! )
Me : hmm... I dont really classify them as english or hindi movies! Its just a movie for me! Langauge hardly matters! Neways so wens ur next visit to india?

Her : Im not sure...depends! But this time il def give u call...Its entertaining to listen to a honest deshbhakta like u!! just kidding! :D :d

My thots : ( Insult and then use "Just kidding" , "hope u dont mind" ...! Grow Up!!!!!!! PLeasE!)
Me : Hehe (I am red !!@!#$) deshbhakta is by default honest my dear ;) Neways (I cant wait to cut this conversation here itself!!!!) Nice talking to u after soo long!! (I wish we dont talk for lonnng now!!! ) U tc , cu

Her : Yep sure , il cu next time i come for visa thingie! Cu!! Kisses to ur sister..!

My thots : ( keep them with u ! there u need them often ;) ;) just kidding!!)
Me : Sure thing! bye

AND I LOG OFF !!!!!

Mad for Mad

Yesterday i was watching Q-sera (Madhuri's song in pukar) and i felt this time i must write about it!
I am going to make a statement which might create controversy or hurt some people , but all those who know about dance will agree !!! I feel "Madhuri Dixit is the best dancer we have ever had... And nobody ever can reach to her level in future too!!!"
I have seen dancers who are technically strong , good in expressions , very graceful , with terrific timing ,amazing chemistry with co star! , who use their eyes a brilliantly , who know what type of dance needs what style , But , Unfortunately EXCEPT for her never came across anyone who has all of this and much more!!!
There is one quality as a dancer i feel a "good dancer" should have! and thats connecting to the audience and making the dance look really easy when its damn diff and complicated ! And blve me she is a master in this... I am not writing something new i know , just revisiting what all her fans think about her!!!
To sum up! I stand by my statement abt her!

I have nothing more than this to write , just wanted to say , NOBODY IS PERFECT , and MADHURI IS NOBODY :)) Love u Mads!!!

SIGNAL...

Ek divas mi sakali laukar uthale , :) [ Lekhanatil kahi goshti kalpanik ahet :) ]

Tar mi sakali laukar uthale ani majhi bike kadhun nalstop la nighale....Pahila signal lagala deccan cha...Sakali 8 chi vel ani mi pahate tar kay , swachcha kapade ghalun ek MAMA ubha choukat....to hasat suddha hota...ani vinamrapane (-> Munnabhai effect) sagalyanna suchana det hota , MAMA che pot baher ale navate...flat hote :)

Rastyavar loka vegveglya lanes madhun gadi chalvat hote! indicators chalu hote....ani magcha indicator pahat hota....ekahi horn vajat navata!!! madhunach ekhada vajala tari tyatun nehemicha karkassh avaj na yeta "sanai" cha avaj yet hota :) itkyat majhi gadi signal pashi pochali...mi savayipramane agadi choukatach jaun thambale....

MAMA kade confidentaly as usual pahat hote...itkyat najar ajubajula geli...aaj kuni competition ch navati signal la....mage rastyavar white lines disat hotya...tithe ka bara paint vaya ghalavtat asa vichar manat yeun gela....pan Naval mhanje loka tyachya mage thambali hoti...

Itkyat MAMA ala..."madam gadi thodi mage ghyal ka" ...Ek kshan mala cultural shock basun mi udale (manatlya manat) , tyavar mi , "pan ata signal sutatatch ahe" ase sangitale...hyavar , "mala manya ahe , pan ase ithe yeun gadi thambvane chukiche asun apan thode mage vhave hich namra vinanti.." iti MAMA...

Sadharan PJ sangitlyavar hoil tasa chehera karun mi mage gadi ghetali tevha white line chya mage asalele sagale parat vinamrapane "dhanyawad" asa mhanale...

Pudhe don teen signal la hich "paristhiti" hoti...Te pahun majha jeev talmalu lagala , na horn che avaj...Na pavati fadaychi dhamaki , na signal la maramari , kunich hat na dakhvata valena...Mala bhayankar manasik tras hou lagala...Mi tharavala hya sagalyapasun mukta hou...ha vichar karun mi SM joshi pulavar gadi ghetali...tar Titehi ekahi gadi ani tyamage dogha asa kahich navata....Dishaheen valavantat jitka khachayla hoil tyapeksha thoda jast khachle...khup gham futala , Dole Gachcha mitale ani mi oradale..."kunitari toda ki niyam...." "Todun taka" !!!!

Dole ughadale tar tyach choukat mi ubhi hote ani signal sutala...Shejarcha car vala rasta cross karnarya kakunna vinrampane mhanla.. "Aho dusari gadi shodha ki , majhich milali ka" , Hushhhhhhh..........

Majhya jeevat jeev ala....!

EK MANASVI PUNEKAR :))))

Mind Your Mind

There are some questions i ask myself all the time...umm...no i should say , i "used to" ask myself !

As i have this habit of listing everything i cant resist to list down things which are so close to my heart and emotional too...
I am sorry in advance for those (almost everybody!) who will think how can she actually number these thoughts??!

Point was..:) These are the questions i used to ask myself ...

1. What is this thing called "life" ?

2. When will my state of mind be stable , satisfied and happy "PERMANENTLY" ?

3. What do i do about mistakes in past...Not only my mistakes but few mistakes by them who matter OR mistakes by them who do not matter at all but unfortunately "the" mistakes matter! All in all its about that helpless-ness/guilt or watever u call about the past....

4. What will happen to me after 5/10/15/20...n years?

5. When will i get back in touch with one or two frnds whom i really miss!??

6. Things really dint go well with some people..sometimes it was me , kabhi situation or mebbe the other person in picture...will things get back to normal before i die...?

7. Life is only once...should i list down the things which i should not miss..?

8. How much money should i save ?

9. Is it wise to live life as a composed , "never hyper/angry" types person...Or is it okay to just freak out once in a while...!

10. I am always chirpy...excited (sometimes there is a reason , most of the times there is not! :D), reactive (sometimes it sucks , i know) , ready to help ( when asked for / when not asked for ) , outgoing and social...But when i look at some people who are reserved , quiet , mature (not always :P) i feel ...Ohh i should be like this...away from the world...not so much into conversations and all that types...Should i change myself ?

11. Am i thinking too much ?

12. Is it gud to just move on and not luk bak ever and ever ???

13. Should i forgive those who have really hurt/ignored me ?

14. Is this what i wanted to do in life ? (currently its IT! )

15. Is it okay to lie once or twice in life or you have to 500% honest to everyone in life ?

16. Do i have to plan my life ?

17. When will i find answers to all my questions ???

18. Who decides what/who is perfect?

19. who decides whats maturity...and whats not! ?


I was travelling the other day...and as usual all these questions started killing my peace !!!
Then i decided today i m gonna get all the answers...Just today!!!

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I found out my answer...and it works! (the dots mean a lot!!! I promise!)

But umm ...before i talk about the answer i want to talk about all these questions and the answers that i thought will work for me or mebbe in general also...But they never worked!!!

I will talk about each question in "coming soon" posts...:) But for now its just the questions for you all...I hope no body minds!! :)

Shopping...! (Language : Marathi)

Hmm...itke divasan pasun blogs lihun pan mi hya vishayavar kadhich kasa lihila nahi...ha aaj mala padlela saglyat mottha prashna ahe...!!! Kasa asata na kahi goshti hya aplyala swatahpasun veglya karta yet nahit!!! Kadhich nahi! Majha ani shopping cha pan tasach ahe...Sadhya soppya shabdat sangaicha jhala tar mi shopping shivay jaguch shakat nahi..."jeevala shantata milne" , "majja yene" , "antim sukh" , "peace of mind" , "refreshing" , "motivation... (?? :))" ashi ani anek visheshan(Adjectives ! ) mi shopping sathi vaparu shakate... Shopping mug te kontyahi prakarcha asudet...majhyasathi asudet kivva dusrya kunasathi...mall madhun asudet kivva rastyavarun...tyachyasarkha dusra sukh nahi ;)... Khup hindun , khup shodun , khup firun ek chotttiishi kharedi karnyatala sukh jyane janala tyala ayushyat "vel kasa ghalavu" ha prashna nahi padnar!!! :) Bara ashisuddha condition nahi ki tumchyakade khup paise asayalach pahijet...agadi sadhyatali sadhi goshta suddha 10 dukana firun ghenyat jee majja ahe tee tyach manasala kalel jyachyasathi "shopping" ha far jivhalyacha vishay ahe!!! Aso ... Majha ek mhan-na ahe...Jya manasala khali lihilele prashna padtat to ubhya janmat shopping madhun sukh milavu shakat nahi :)1. Majhyakade khup kapade ahe , ata he kashala ajun...2. Evdhya chappal astana ajun ek nako buva....3. Hya vastucha mala tasa farsa upyog nahiye...4. Paise shopping madhe vaya ghalvanyapeksha ... Ase vichar asnari loka hya sukhacha anubhav abhavanech(rarely) gheu shaktat...Its not abt what u buy...Its abt how u buy..:) asa ek siddhant ahe... Khup aswastha vatat asel..kivva ekata vatat asel..tar saral ekta gharabaher padava..disel tya dukanat jaun sarva vastu pahun kahich na gheta parat yava...he mi anek vela kelay , Thodyavelakarata ka hoina apan eka veglya jagat jato...Navya vastunmadhli navalai , tyabaddalcha kutuhun , pudhe mage kadhi tari mi suddha he vastu ghein asa sagala planning yat apan barech haravun jato... Khup orada khaun suddha majhi hee ek savay (Kahi loka tyala vyasan ase mhantat) kadhich geli nahi...Khara tar mi kadhich jau dili nahi...Karan tyatun milnara samadhan he khara tar shabdat mandata yenar nahi...ani te jyanna jyanna milta tyannach kadachit he patel...Bakichyanna patava ashi majhi apeksha nahi...Karan ha anubhav kunihi kunala deu shakat nahi...to aplya aplyala ghyava lagto hech khara..!!! Mi khup vela swatala var lihilele prashna dekhil vicharale ahet..nahi asa nahi!!! Pan manatlya manat majhyakade mi tyachi uttar pan tayar keleli ahet , ani mhanunach darveli tharavunahi pahile padhe panchavanna..!!! ashi avastha ahe... Aso..ajun lihinyasarkhe far kahi nahi hyabaddal..Shopping kashyachi ani kuthe karavi hyabaddal kahihi mahiti havi aslyas ...Bheta agar liha... :) Me ek shopper...Ha ha ha :)